Written on Jan 18, 2022
My dear Adeola, I was deeply hurt by your behavior towards me in the night of Jan 18, 2022. I intention made myself closer to you because of my special love for you. I started to ask myself questions about all the three of you when I was sent to jail by your mother, Dec 19, 2019 - Feb 20, 2020. Not one of you felt concerned about what happened. You in particular acted as if you did not know. Your taking side with your mother was to me unthinkable.
You guys truly believed I did nothing to support you and that your mother did everything. You people are supposed to be intelligent, a thinking people, I supposed. What I see of the three of you is far from what I prayed for or expected.
I will set the record straight. I supported you, the children and your mother, regardless of what lies you have been fed and believed.
It was I, who did in fact prayed to God to take me away from your mother beginning in 2003 and God answered my prayer.
It was a very bad decision to have married your mother, we were not a good fit. Like I openly admitted, the ONLY thing I regretted doing to her, was putting my hands on her. Your mother was not the nicest of anyone I have dated or knew, she was very horrible. I have restrained myself from saying bad things about her. I even forced myself to apologize to her two or three times. She, in truth did not deserve my apology. She is the one who should have apologized to me. She was a greedy woman who wanted everything for herself alone.
She didn't care about anyone else but herself. She is doing that stupid cooking business in that house, disturbing every one with constant noise of grinding machine. I told her to go and get herself a shop like everyone starting out a business. No, she didn't want to do that, she wanted to build her business on the pains of others. An abhorrent selfish thing to do. It was fine with her to keep disturbing everyone. It is a shame, I ever was with such a person, who to me put herself above everyone. A very inconsiderate woman.
All I wanted to do, was to get away from her, this was the reason, I did not contest the divorce. She asked for a divorce, I simply told her FINE, she got everything she asked for and MORE. I walked out with nothing except my books, my book rack and my stereo set. Every other thing was left for her. PEACE to me has no price, by God, I got peace, even all those who saw me a few years after the divorce told me how well I looked. I gave everything to have my health back and my wellbeing.
For the record, I paid the mortgage from the time the house was built. up until the time of the divorce, Dec 2011. I paid, ADT which she was not even using, I paid your water bill and the Home Owner Association dues. Everything I was paying added up to about $2500, the mortgage being the most expense. She claimed she was paying 3000 USD in other expenses (food, light, gas, sport activities for the boys and clothes for the children).
I paid for all your sporting activities, your scouting activities, your music lessons and I have canceled checks as proof. I can accept all of you supporting your mother, but you need to ask questions and not believe everything she says. Your mother is a liar who lie effortlessly.
She is the ONLY mother I know who has thrown her children out of the house, not once, but at least three times. The dates and times are all on my blog online. I, on the other hand have NEVER thrown you out of my house or apartment. NEVER!.
I gave your mother 1500 USD every month, from July 2011 when I moved out until July 2018. Despite my financial situation, I still paid your first semester at Colin County College. It was My friends who sent the money directly to you one sent you $600, and two others sent $200 each in my behalf. Yet you sat there and boldly told a lie about me, of me never to have supported you. My dear that ws a BIG lie. Keep in mind I was laid off in May of 2018. This was why I stopped making the child support for you and Korede. She went to court and won. Judgement was to pay her 17,500 USD I can't remember the exact amount and I have been making 500 USD to her every month. Hopefully, it will be paid all off next year, and I will be forever FREE from her. It was a mistake that we met, and huge mistake that we got married. It is indeed a sour point of my life. She is not someone, I like, nor respect at all, and it is sad, because you are supposed to love/like the mother of your children. That one!!!, your mother, I don't hate her, but I don't like her, she is a very manipulative woman, and an evil woman personified. All of you need to repent for your sins against me.
One with God is a majority. I am at peace with myself.
Your father,
Michael Folorunso
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